Hi everyone! I have just kind of come back home and now I am about making a new blogpost that might be interesting for you. Hope you are doing fine and your mood is as good as mine ;-)
Well, to be honest when I was on my way to home, I was thinking about an issue why people are so indecisive? Like what is always stopping them when they should make a decision?
You know that I have been written some potential reasons of this
process: laziness, fear, absence of such habit as openness to some ‘new
flows’ that can come to their life. But here is one more thing, which is
actually deeply psychological: people don’t want to be losers.
Our
mentality is giving us a direction of our behavior. So we are trying to
become leaders, masters of our life, to make our parents be proud of us,
to be as an example to our children, etc., in other words – to be proud of ourselves!
(I am talking about normal situations because I guess that there are
some people that might not want to achieve anything, but sorry, then
they have already become losers automatically! They do not want to have a
good life and good results of their work. Maybe they even do not want
to work, who knows. It is their deal.) Yes, it is a great intention but
the problem here is that some of us are worried that they won’t be able
to live up their own expectations. And this is the MAIN obstacle here! This obstacle is stopping people to start a new business,
a new something that will be as a good mode to achieve any unachievable
goals, to find a new source of creating a happy life, to prove their
closest people that THEY CAN!
And the solution here is only one: forget about all this stuff.
Forget about those stupid facts that you won’t succeed, won’t change
your life fundamentally and won’t give your relatives the better
life(which is the most important!). Forget about any barriers that will
be essentially run across. Forget about everything that seems to make
you a loser (obviously for you it is so). You are not a loser if you at
least TRY to find your right niche – you are a hero! You
are a completely decisive and spirited person; you are open to anything
that can help you to create your beautiful wonderful world full of
happiness and joy! That’s the person that you are now.
And
speaking about those things that can interrupt you during your great way
to be a true hero – they should be somewhere in the past. You are looking at your future and you know that it’s gonna be amazing!
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