Live differently if you want.

Hello! This is my hint for today: if a person is not satisfied with his life in general or partly, he should think what he can do to change the situation and to live differently.

Well, there are a lot of various situations that are happening every day to different people in different places and at different time, but the moral of all of them is common – a person should try to find a real system to solve any problem using almost any methods and finding some efficient ways, which can help him to do that. Yes, people are not identical. Some of them are ready and are prepared for any changes, starting from making a new haircut and ending with a moving to another country. Not all of them are so decisive and brave, a quite huge part is afraid of any changes, so then a fundamental alteration is impossible. And if we are talking about another part of people, who are really easy-going and risk-taking, it is a big chance that they will catch an opportunity to change at least something so that they will feel better. It is a psychological thing.

So if you are scared to change your mind and to do something to change your life then, let me show you a simple example of how literally everything is going in life. If a young family wants to have a baby, its’ future parents are really a bit nervous because they don’t know all the procedures and all the details of the mom’s and dad’s duties. But when they understand that the time to give a birth to a new creature is now, they visit some special courses, read an appropriate literature, ask their parents to help and to know some secrets of a home life, etc. After some time they become well-prepared for having a child and they make a decision to conceive it.

This example is right from life and it can be transported to any other situation. If a person faces a difficulty and he doesn’t know what to do, he needs to get the necessary knowledge to overcome this difficulty. And that’s all. Yes, it can be hard and it can take time and your energy. But you will become stronger and more courageous, it will make your personality bigger and more authoritative so that people will come to you like to the mentor and will ask YOUR advice. Maybe it is a paradox but your life's difficulties can help you to overcome ANY difficulties and even “to rule the world”. Every cloud has a silver lining, as a famous idiom says.