How we would like to live?

 Hello, dear readers! A lot of us have been thinking of how we would like to live. And most people are saying that they wish to live well and to have everything that they want – in other words, to be under no restraint at all. I even guess that everybody has such wishes. But the question is: what are you doing to make your life better? What job do you have? What are your potential opportunities and plans for future?

The tendency shows that we need to find our individual ways of making our life as good as we want it to have. Actually there is a thing that sometimes stops us and we are not doing anything for this – a fear. A fear is telling us that we should not try to do anything new because it is risky and we cannot know and predict what will be as a result of our actions. A fear is like a reason for people not to start changing their life; only a desperate person will take a risk to do that. But the percentage of such people (who are so desperate, lost and broken) is low so a few people will test it and naturally even less people from this amount will succeed in their attempts. Thus it is hard to imagine that people are eager to change their life not just in their mind, but in the reality!

Though let me hazard and prove you that the situation that we have with fear, risk and attempts is ABSURD! Let’s have a look at some examples. For instance, if we look at a typical young family, which is about having a baby, we will see that normal parents won’t be very terrified and will try to learn something about parenthood (even if it is like a new feeling and new thing that they need to analyze and to study on). But if a situation changes and future parents decide not to make a baby because it is risky, because there can be some problems with health (both mother’s and child’s) or problems with financial state or whatever … then one day we will see that there will be no children in the whole world! And now it sounds ridiculous … because everybody knows that a child is an integral part of each family’s life.

Or if we have a look at some different situations: buying a car, going somewhere to have a rest, starting to make some sports, etc. It is impossible to imagine that we won’t do such things, because they are NATURAL. So, guys, be natural, be ready to start something new if you want, dedicate yourself to an activity that you like and think positive! =)